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Putting Ourselves at the Bottom of the Priority List

By Well-Read Mom | October 3, 2023 | Comments Off on Putting Ourselves at the Bottom of the Priority List

Many women hold a deep (perhaps subconscious) belief that self-care is selfish. They conclude that it’s okay to take care of themselves if—and only if—everyone else’s needs are met. This belief is illogical. A woman spiraling in this direction is in danger of being depleted. And a depleted soul has little to give anyone. This type of unbalanced martyrdom ends up actually hurting the people we love because we destroy our own capacity to serve them. I know this from experience.

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Francie Nolan Lends a Heart

By Well-Read Mom | September 18, 2023 | Comments Off on Francie Nolan Lends a Heart

This summer, I had the profound experience of a book lending strength to my overtired and over-busy heart. Before I came to A Tree Grows in Brooklyn (again), I felt exhausted and a bit lifeless. There are long seasons of emotional and physical exhaustion in my life, exacerbated by external factors beyond my control.

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Basketball, Books, and Squandering Time

By Well-Read Mom | September 7, 2023 | Comments Off on Basketball, Books, and Squandering Time

I was shocked to realize I’ve squandered fifty-plus hours these past weeks glued to the screen (already forgetting which team played which in the earlier rounds). Why have I given so much time to this? Here I am, leading a national reading organization, and yet, I get off track so easily. Why is it almost automatic to turn the TV on sometimes, but it requires a herculean effort to pick up a book?

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A Reflection on the Year of the Giver

By Well-Read Mom | August 31, 2023 | Comments Off on A Reflection on the Year of the Giver

As we’ve explored the ideas of gift, givenness, and the Giver, we must ask what role we play. I think the answer is to trust that our primary job is to accept and “open” the gift. But receiving is not just a passive endeavor; we must actively participate in it. In doing so, we grow in our capacity to receive. May we all accept God and His gifts for each of us: His word, sacraments, and the people He has placed in our lives. May we always seek Him with the trust that, by doing so, we will know Him. Thankfully, we get to spend all of next year exploring the idea of seeking.

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Willa Cather and the Artist of All Art

By Well-Read Mom | July 6, 2023 | Comments Off on Willa Cather and the Artist of All Art

I wonder what Willa Cather would think about her biographies. A famously private person, she destroyed many drafts and personal letters before her death. While this leaves many fundamental questions about her life unanswered, her published works offer undeniable evidence of her religious sensibilities. She often weaves together her characters’ search for meaning with her own. Because the Christian tradition formed Cather’s life, her readers must interpret her writing in that context.

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East of Eden: The Bad, the False, and the Ugly

By Well-Read Mom | June 6, 2023 | Comments Off on East of Eden: The Bad, the False, and the Ugly

As I snuggled up on the couch, a cup of rose tea steaming in my favorite mug within arms reach and my newborn baby asleep on my chest, I opened the newest Well-Read Mom book selection. I hadn’t had a chance to read any of the book selections during the first half of the year due to moving and welcoming our newest child, so this was a long-awaited joy. It was a new book full of new characters to meet, places to explore, and thoughts to contemplate. I was ready!

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Five things I’ve Learned in Five Years of Well-Read Mom

By Well-Read Mom | May 22, 2023 | Comments Off on Five things I’ve Learned in Five Years of Well-Read Mom

Five years ago, I invited myself to a Well-Read Mom group. I was pregnant with my second child, desperate for friends, and craving the intellectual stimulation of real conversation. Little did I know how intensely the friends I met and the characters I encountered would be formative.

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Giving with Empty Hands

By Well-Read Mom | May 8, 2023 | Comments Off on Giving with Empty Hands

I came to my first Well-Read Mom conference this past fall, feeling something like the line in the song, “I Heard the Voice of Jesus Say,” that is: “weary, worn, and sad.” My responsibilities as a wife, mother, and parish ministry worker sometimes weighed heavily on me. Listening to Marcie’s talk about the roots of the Well-Read Mom, including that moment she had in the coffee shop when she was “supposed” to be at her son’s cross-country meet, hit the heart of my experiences and made the tears stream down my face. I had read about this giving moment in Marcie’s life in her book, The Well-Read Mom, but I loved hearing about it again while sitting with a couple of hundred women in the audience, sharing that moment of understanding.

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The Truths of Motherhood: Reflections on Courage, Grief, and Love

By Well-Read Mom | April 25, 2023 | Comments Off on The Truths of Motherhood: Reflections on Courage, Grief, and Love

The funny thing about motherhood is that, before entering this state of life, one cannot possibly grasp the magnitude of the undertaking. No matter how many well-written parenting books we read, no matter how many emphatic relatives opine on this or that aspect of child-rearing, no matter how “prepared” one feels to embark on the journey, the inescapable truth is—from the exalted heights of all-encompassing joy and rapture to the anguishing depths of heartache and desolation—we are all hopelessly unprepared for what lies across the great divide between maidenhood and motherhood.

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The Hard yet Fruitful Components of Literature

By Well-Read Mom | April 17, 2023 | Comments Off on The Hard yet Fruitful Components of Literature

When we read literature, we consider hard questions. What should the character have done? What would I do in his situation? Which character do I want to emulate? From what must I repent? Over and over again, Well-Read Mom offers us beautifully challenging books that force us to consider these questions.