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“Friendship? Yes Please!”

By Well-Read Mom / April 25, 2024 / Comments Off on “Friendship? Yes Please!”

In addition to the maternal embrace, prayers, and tears of Saint Monica, Saint Augustine needed the wisdom, presence, and friendship of Saint Ambrose! He needed a home and a community to find God and serve Him.

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Pax Revisited

By Well-Read Mom / April 18, 2024 / Comments Off on Pax Revisited

I realized that I was, in fact, trying to protect my children. This is a natural response, and it is largely our responsibility to do so. But it’s also our responsibility to equip our children, especially as they get older.

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Severity As Merciful As Love

By Well-Read Mom / April 12, 2024 / Comments Off on Severity As Merciful As Love

How often do we create fortresses around idols: things, relationships, or even people that, while beautiful and admirable in their proper sphere, can potentially obscure the true End? We weigh the cost of giving with the toll it exacts on our happiness, and too often, we favor the path of contentment over the “Severe Mercy” of death: death to self, to contentment, to ease, to ambitions and hopes.

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Mina and Mattie: Examples of Femininity

By Well-Read Mom / April 5, 2024 / Comments Off on Mina and Mattie: Examples of Femininity

I am due with a new little one any day now (prayers appreciated!), and the very clear reality of labor and birth is looming over me pretty much non-stop. While I must admit that I am battling some fear, I am also incredibly aware of my posture in front of this reality. This baby is coming, and only I can walk the road before me. It is a task that I have been given, and I must either grudgingly accept or gratefully receive. Both of these options are open to me, but it seems that there is one that offers more freedom. Freedom for me is in the active surrender of saying yes. 

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How Boldness is Both Necessary and Attainable

By Well-Read Mom / March 23, 2024 / Comments Off on How Boldness is Both Necessary and Attainable

If “true grit” is an unflappable determination in the face of any circumstances, however horrific, challenging, or dire, the question remains: is this a natural gift or an attainable virtue?

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The Right to Be Called Gritty

By Well-Read Mom / March 14, 2024 / Comments Off on The Right to Be Called Gritty

I have found myself wallowing in pity lately. I have found myself screaming to God, “Why me? Why can’t you let up? Why do we have to have one legitimate trauma after another?” I have found myself trying to reason with God, believing the maxim that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger, but telling God that I think I am plenty strong enough for the time being; thank you very much. And then I picked up True Grit, and I met Mattie Ross.

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The Hiding Place: “The Ripple of Laughter” in the Darkness

By Well-Read Mom / February 29, 2024 / Comments Off on The Hiding Place: “The Ripple of Laughter” in the Darkness

How do people find hope in the face of flagrant cruelty or disdain? The answer, as the ten Booms poignantly and concretely discovered, is found in the One Who endured the greatest suffering of all.

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True Grit: Something New to Ponder Each Time

By Well-Read Mom / February 21, 2024 / Comments Off on True Grit: Something New to Ponder Each Time

This book appears on my Top 10 list. It’s just plain fun. And how often do I allow myself to read for pure pleasure?

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When Following is Freedom

By Well-Read Mom / February 13, 2024 / Comments Off on When Following is Freedom

We are a lonely culture that values “being rebellious” over true, deep happiness and fulfillment. Really, it all boils down to pride, yes? But truly, I need people. I always have and always will need people—and there is true freedom in following something proposed in love.

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Books: the Avenue to Making Space to Seek

By Well-Read Mom / February 1, 2024 / Comments Off on Books: the Avenue to Making Space to Seek

Reading the same books together gives people a common language with which to facilitate broader discussions. It builds culture and community.

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