Year of the Seeker

Mina and Mattie: Examples of Femininity

By Well-Read Mom / April 5, 2024 / Comments Off on Mina and Mattie: Examples of Femininity

I am due with a new little one any day now (prayers appreciated!), and the very clear reality of labor and birth is looming over me pretty much non-stop. While I must admit that I am battling some fear, I am also incredibly aware of my posture in front of this reality. This baby is coming, and only I can walk the road before me. It is a task that I have been given, and I must either grudgingly accept or gratefully receive. Both of these options are open to me, but it seems that there is one that offers more freedom. Freedom for me is in the active surrender of saying yes. 

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Seeking the Beauty of Trees

By Well-Read Mom / March 29, 2024 / Comments Off on Seeking the Beauty of Trees

On the First Sunday of Lent, one of our parish’s deacons gave the homily. He spoke about how, when his family first moved to Kansas City one summer, he was struck by the beauty of the trees. He had moved from the desert and wasn’t accustomed to so much green. Now, of course, the trees aren’t green. He likened the bleak, bare winter landscape to the Lenten season. We repent and let go, just as the trees let go of their leaves, he said, trusting that come Easter, come spring, we can glory in the Resurrection. Clearly, there is something going on here. It makes sense to me that trees are meaningful to Christians.

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How Boldness is Both Necessary and Attainable

By Well-Read Mom / March 23, 2024 / Comments Off on How Boldness is Both Necessary and Attainable

If “true grit” is an unflappable determination in the face of any circumstances, however horrific, challenging, or dire, the question remains: is this a natural gift or an attainable virtue?

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The Right to Be Called Gritty

By Well-Read Mom / March 14, 2024 / Comments Off on The Right to Be Called Gritty

I have found myself wallowing in pity lately. I have found myself screaming to God, “Why me? Why can’t you let up? Why do we have to have one legitimate trauma after another?” I have found myself trying to reason with God, believing the maxim that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger, but telling God that I think I am plenty strong enough for the time being; thank you very much. And then I picked up True Grit, and I met Mattie Ross.

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The Hiding Place: “The Ripple of Laughter” in the Darkness

By Well-Read Mom / February 29, 2024 / Comments Off on The Hiding Place: “The Ripple of Laughter” in the Darkness

How do people find hope in the face of flagrant cruelty or disdain? The answer, as the ten Booms poignantly and concretely discovered, is found in the One Who endured the greatest suffering of all.

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True Grit: Something New to Ponder Each Time

By Well-Read Mom / February 21, 2024 / Comments Off on True Grit: Something New to Ponder Each Time

This book appears on my Top 10 list. It’s just plain fun. And how often do I allow myself to read for pure pleasure?

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When Following is Freedom

By Well-Read Mom / February 13, 2024 / Comments Off on When Following is Freedom

We are a lonely culture that values “being rebellious” over true, deep happiness and fulfillment. Really, it all boils down to pride, yes? But truly, I need people. I always have and always will need people—and there is true freedom in following something proposed in love.

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Books: the Avenue to Making Space to Seek

By Well-Read Mom / February 1, 2024 / Comments Off on Books: the Avenue to Making Space to Seek

Reading the same books together gives people a common language with which to facilitate broader discussions. It builds culture and community.

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“One Cannot Become Holy All at Once…”: Brother Lawrence’s Guide for a Recovering Perfectionist

By Well-Read Mom / January 31, 2024 / Comments Off on “One Cannot Become Holy All at Once…”: Brother Lawrence’s Guide for a Recovering Perfectionist

And while there is nothing wrong with wanting to avoid sin and seek spiritual perfection, if not motivated more by the love of God than by personal pride, we can vitally miss the point. “The Practice of the Presence of God,” by Brother Lawrence—a 17th-century Discalced Carmelite who offered spiritual direction to others through his counsel and writings—emphasizes the importance of serving God in trust and love rather than cowering before him in fear and inadequacy.

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The Thoughtful Home

By Well-Read Mom / January 18, 2024 / Comments Off on The Thoughtful Home

We want to have thoughtful homes; we need to have thoughtful homes. Every human being has needs—fundamental and yet specific to the individual. Our culture is fast losing the practices and routines that for generations fostered this necessary human contact. So what can we do?

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